Have you noticed headlines about Generative AI and teens just about everywhere lately? Despite the technology’s newness, the basic storyline feels… all too familiar. We’ve been here before. The social media era gave us a preview of what happens when powerful new technology reaches young people faster than our understanding of it does. In that era, research lagged behind deployment by years, and solutions like content moderation, screen time tools, and age verification that eventually emerged were generally bolted on after the fact, rarely shaped by expertise in adolescent development and well-being or by young digital natives themselves. As our colleagues in youth-led coalitions like Design It For Us argue powerfully, we are collectively still paying dearly for that. Litigation, legislative fights, belated industry reckonings, not to mention the unfolding impacts on all of us, young people in particular: these are the costs of building first and understanding later.
Compared to that earlier era, however, AI is moving even faster and reaching even deeper into the parts of adolescent development that matter most. How young people form relationships, regulate emotions, and figure out who they are. We don’t get a ‘do-over’ on social media, but we do get a choice about how the next chapter goes, and about the future we collectively bring into being.
The choice comes down to who is in the room.

Here’s the finding that stays with me: there are 